When It Comes to Flower Arranging, Don’t Be a Late Bloomer: Six Tips on Making Beautiful Bouquets

Mason Jar ArrangementArmed with good intention, I joined Apartment Therapy’s January Cure, a thirty-day plan to “whip your home into shape, get it clean, organized and under control.” I lasted until Day Eight, when the weekend task was to Clean Your Kitchen and Declutter/Organize as You Go.”  It was just too much for a weekend.

One thing I did pick up during the seven days I participated in the January Cure was the weekly purchase of fresh flowers for my house. According to Apartment Therapy, “As simple as it sounds, the act of buying holds great significance and will heal your home on many levels. They are beautiful, they add life to the space, they help to humidify and cleanse the air.”

While all of these are reasons to buy fresh flowers, there was no “Flower Arranging for Dummies” guide. I winged it, and through a process of trial and error, have created a few really nice arrangements. Recently via Food 52, I saw some great tips on arrange flowers! (Where were these when I needed them?) Because they were such good tips, I thought I’d pick out a few of my favorites. For the full Food 52 article on flower arranging, click here.

  1. Pick a color sequence of no more than three colors. It’s easy to get carried away while browsing a flower shop — but making something beautiful is easier when your flowers match each other.
  2. Big flowers stretch the farthest. If you’re on a budget — or if you’re nervous about making your own arrangement — go for a larger type of flower. They take up more space in a bouquet, so you can buy less of them — and they’re easier to work with while building a bouquet.
  3. If you’re using a round, wide-mouthed vase, make the arrangement in your hand first. Start with the flowers you’d like in the center, and start building around them, rotating the bouquet in your hand. When you’re satisfied, you can cut them all together — and just plop them in your vase!
  4. If you’re using a tall, skinny vase, think about height. Since these vases look beautiful standing against a wall, take advantage of your point of reference. Starting from the front, build your bouquet upwards, so that the tallest flowers stand up in the back. Here’s where your filler flowers come in; use them as your tall backdrop, while letting your colors pop in the front.
  5. Work on symmetry. When you’re starting arrangements, it’s easiest to make things beautiful by working in symmetry. Putting a pink flower on the left? Put another on the right. Is there a big flower towards the front? Try framing the bouquet with them.
  6. Change your water every day. If you have time, wash the vase with soap and water, and add a tiny bit of bleach to each new change of water (this will kill the bacteria). Each time you put your flowers in new water, you should give the stems a fresh cut.

Are you a fan of fresh flowers? What are your favorites? Any great tips for arranging them?

 

Why I Have Been Out of Pocket

Mid-month, my mother, my sister and I took the week off and went to New York City! I spent a week getting ready for the trip, then a week catching up from being out a week. Check out our adventures at our Baldauf Chicks blog. I’ll be back to the blog soon. In the meantime, hope everyone had a great holiday season. I don’t know about you, but I’m looking forward to ringing in a new year!

O Holy Night

As hard as it is sometimes for me to get up for weekday cardio and training, it always amazes me when I wake up bright, even early, on the weekends. This morning, I woke up around 3:20 a.m., probably excited about our upcoming trip to NYC. I flipped through the TV and stopped on Fox News Huckabee show. I don’t usually watch Fox News, but since we are taking Mom to a Huckabee taping – thank you, Heather Price -I thought I’d check it out.

The show closed with a Christmas song from Richard Marx, who I remember as singing some really sappy love ballads in the late 1980s. But it’s not Richard Marx that got me up to prepare a post this early — I started this post at 4:00 a.m. –  but the Christmas song he sang, O Holy Night. O Holy Night has long been a personal favorite, and a particular performance years ago still gives me chills when I think about it.

Many years ago, our family attended the Christmas Eve services as First Presbyterian Church downtown. I remember that the lights were low, so maybe it was a candlelight service. After a Scripture reading, a young gentleman made his way to the podium. He was probably about 30, dark hair, handsome. He struggled to get to the podium because he had what I assume to be multiple sclerosis; he struggled to walk and his arms were partially immobile. I was unsure what to expect.

Once he got to the podium and settled in, it was as quiet as a pin. I was waiting for the music to begin when out came what had to be one of the most beautiful voices I’ve ever heard. Without so much a quiver in his voice, he delivered the most incredible version of O Holy Night I’ve ever heard, a capella. It brought tears to my eyes, and when I recall the story to others, sometimes it still does.

I can’t remember the date of the service, but I remember the experience clearly; it was one of those life-changing moments. I grew up in church, but like many people, I still have questions when it comes to matters of faith.  But when I heard that voice, I got chills up my spine. Even though that singer faced a horrible disease that had ravaged his body, God blessed him with the voice of an angel. And to this day, not a time goes by that I don’t think of him when I hear O Holy Night.

When writing this, it occurred to me that I might know who this is. For years, I worked the polls with Linda Suber, who was very active First Pres member. Every election, a man similar  to  the one I described came in, and he and Linda always chatted. I wonder if that could be him? I’d love to let him know what his performance has meant to me.

 

 

 

A Visit with Dad

Dad, Sister and me in the mid-1980s.

I had a great visit with Dad overnight.

That may surprise some of you, who know that Dad lost his battle with Lewy body dementia almost a year ago.

While I’ve done okay with the usual milestones – Father’s Day, Dad’s birthday and the other “first ___ without Dad” – the last few weeks has been hard. It started when I heard a Willie Nelson Christmas song, which took me straight back to Dad’s hospital bed hours before his passing. That’s been followed by very real, eerie flashbacks of that last week with Dad.

Last night was different. Dad and I shared a walk down memory lane in my sleep.

I know what brought it on. Some nights, my cat falls asleep on the sofa. Right before I go to bed, I’ll scoop her up and bring her to bed with me. I love doing this as it reminds me of long ago when Dad would scoop me up from the sofa and carry me up to my room. The memories are very fuzzy, but  they’re there. And last night, I shared them with Sister.

Overnight, I dreamt of that same time frame, and Dad was with me. It was back in Portsmouth. The house we lived in was being sold, and we had a chance to walk through; he was my guide. Strangely, though someone else lived in the house, our belongings were still  there. As we walked through each room, and I found various treasured items I would pick up each item, explain its meaning to Dad and then hold on to it dearly.

The dream was largely inaccurate. The house was much larger, and most of the item weren’t ones that I remember ever having. The only thing I do remember as accurate was Dad showing me a drawer full of shoe polish and me telling him that the smell of shoe polish reminds me of him. In real life, I vividly remember Dad shining his shoes on this wooden shoe shine box that contained shoe brushes and tins of wax. (A side note: While Mom did a lot for Dad – they had a very traditional marriage – I remember him shining his shoes when I was younger. I’ll have to ask Mom about that, as well as if she still has that old shoe shine box.)

Despite the dream being off in terms of accuracy, it was very comforting. Sister and Mom came into the dream sometime during the walk through the house, and it was good family time. Just before the alarm jarred me into reality, Mom rushing me in my dream, telling me that it was time to go. I was telling her that I needed just a few more minutes to find a decoupaged trash can that I made in Vacation Bible School. I hit the snooze button and tried to fall back asleep into the dream. I didn’t, but I did enjoy laying there and enjoying the great feelings that the dream conjured up.

I wish I had longer to think about the dream, but I have a quick trip  to Charlotte for a morning presentation. I do look forward to telling Sister about it and perhaps remembering more about it as I travel.

 

A New Blog

No worries, I’m still blogging at Lean Green MP, but I’ve got new blogging duties these days at Baldauf Chicks. It’s a new blog featuring the adventures of Mom, Sister and I as we attempt to live boldly in memory of my dad, who we lost in December, 2011.

The Baldauf Chicks – Sister, Mom and I – just before we left for Virginia! We look so fresh; too bad I didn’t take a “just got home” picture for comparison!

October was busy with a road trip to Mom’s high school homecoming, and I’ve spent a good bit of time uploading pictures and posting from the trip. It’s temporarily taken me away from here, but I’m almost caught up.

Thanks for your patience! I have a lot of catching up to do!

 

I’m Still Standing!

My word, it’s been a crazy few weeks. Just when I  thought I’d moved past the busy season, I was assigned a new project that has required a lot of time and work. I’m keeping my head above water, but the extra time to blog (and clean and cook) just hasn’t been plentiful. This week is another crazy one, but I hope come next Monday, things will be back to normal. (Whatever that is!)

I’m Back!

Has it really been two weeks since my last post?

It’s been a crazy two weeks! On September 18, we had the SC Green is Good for Business Conference. The week before was insane; the week after I had to recover. In those two weeks, I scribbled plenty of ideas for blog posts, and with any luck, I’ll get to them in the next week.

More on the hiatus later. For now, I’m glad to be back, and look forward to catching up!

Revente’s Last Call Birthday Bash!

Last week, I blogged about Revente’s Last Call, a Columbia re-sale boutique where you can “purchase with a purpose.” This week, Revente’s Last Call is celebrating their second year in business, and with a special event and sales, you’re the one getting the gift!

Here are the details:

If you come to the celebration – or anytime you visit Last Call – bring coffee, powdered creamer and/or sugar for The Women’s Shelter. (I checked with Debbie; “blues and pinks,” aka Equal and Sweet n Low, are also accepted!)

More Is Not Always Better

Minimalism: (noun) design or style in which the simplest and fewest elements are used to create the maximum effect.

I could in no way describe myself as a minimalist. Not as an artist, dresser or even person. So it might surprise you that I’m doing the re-design for this website in a minimalist theme.

I’ve been thinking about the re-design for much longer than I’ve actually been doing it. All of a sudden the colors of this site looked dark and the fonts started to drive me crazy. I’ve played with a lot of designs, but the one I will be launching soon is quite minimalist.

Line 25, a web design blog, says this of minimalism in web design:

“The sophisticated image of minimalism has always been a popular style of design. In web design a minimalist site is stripped naked of eye candy and fancy colours or effects, leaving the underlying structure exposed. The key to a beautiful minimalist site is a solid and structured layout, as well as focus on stylish and well-designed typography.”

I’m not a professional web designer, nor did I look at web site designs and select a minimalist one. For me, it’s a more organic process. After looking at some site designs that I like, I pulled up Artisteer, a web design product, and tinkered until I found something like “felt right.” It just happened to be in the minimalist style.

So, be on the lookout for the re-design. I’m not sure when it will launch; it really depends on how much longer it takes to finish. (Getting up très early and having to go to bed relatively early, too, doesn’t lend itself to doing a lot of anything before and after work.) It’s different, but you can’t say that I didn’t warn you!

Do you have a certain style you like when it comes to websites/blogs? Is there something that you think every website/blog should have? Any website/blog pet peeves?

One Last Call You Can’t Afford to Miss

Last week, a friend who is losing weight asked me where I got my transitional clothes. As I was telling her about Revente’s Last Call, I decided a blog post was in order. A quick Google search took me to a post about the first time I went to Last Call, which was March of 2011. So much has changed then – for one thing, I’ve gone from a size 14 to a size 8 – but my appreciation of Revente’s Last Call has only gotten stronger.

Last March, I discovered Revente’s Last Call, a charity resale shop benefiting The Women’s Shelter in Columbia, South Carolina. I was about midway through my two-year journey to better health, and I needed some smaller clothes. I’d been steadily losing weight and couldn’t keep myself in a pair of pants for more than about a month. I visited Last Call for inexpensive clothes to wear during the transition, but I found much more: stylish, sustainable, affordable clothes; women helping other women; even new friends.

Being a long time “green queen,” I reduce, reuse and recycle. Thanks to Revente’s Last Call, I can also add shop sustainably to that list. Shopping at resale boutiques like Last Call, you reduce your environmental impact in a huge way. Used clothes don’t require new materials, energy or resources to manufacture.  They also don’t require new packaging or additional shipping.  Even better, when my purchases become too big, I clean them and take them back for a third person to enjoy.

Lest you think shopping a re-sale boutique leaves you with no style, think again! The bulk of Last Call’s inventory is from the generous consignors of Revente in Five Points, where consignors may choose to donate their unsold items knowing they are helping support women in need through our shop. I’m not a “name brand” fashionista, but I’ve gotten some great high end and designer finds at Last Call. In addition, there’s a unique selection; it’s not the same thing you see at store after store in the malls and shopping centers.  

And sustainability and style don’t win you over, the prices will. On my most recent trip to Last Call, I bought three great pieces for less than $55, including a fuschia Talbots cotton shirt ($15), a two-piece Singrid Olsen green sweater set ($20) and a black Larry Levine faux-wrap skirt ($15).  If you “like” Revente’s Last Call Facebook page, you’ll hear about their special sales – they often have buy one, get one half-off sales – and also get a sneak peak at some fab pieces. Also, if you donate clothes, you also get a coupon for a percentage off your next purchase, as well as a receipt for tax purposes.

What differentiates Revente’s Last Call from other re-sale shops is 100% of net profits go to The Women’s Shelter,  a non-profit organization that provide a safe environment for homeless women in crisis and the necessary resources to build strong and healthy lives. Since opening their doors in September, 2010, they’ve donated over $44,000 to the shelter. That’s not all. They also help the women by providing suits for job interviews and other occasions. Phenomenal.

If you’re not sold yet, you have to meet some of the special women of Revente’s Last Call. First, there’s shop owner Debbie McDaniel, a real fireball! She’s a “buy local” advocate, style maven and all-around good person. She’s usually at Revente, and I always try to stop in to visit when I’m in Five Points. Patti and Chase run the store on a daily basis, and after shopping there for these last 17 months, they’ve become fun new friends! I remember the time I was there and fit into my first size 12 pants in years. They were as excited as I was! And Chase could be my personal stylist. She knows my love for color and patterns, and as soon as I walk in, she starts pulling things they’ve gotten in that “look like me.”

I’ve actually just about hit my goal weight, and I thought this would be the time that I started investing in more expensive pieces. But you know what? I’m still shopping Revente’s Last Call. It’s a great way to add stylish, inexpensive pieces to your wardrobe while helping others. It’s a win-win-win.

So whether you’re on the lookout for transition pieces while you’re losing weight, new pieces to update your wardrobe or new ways to save money in today’s economy, I recommend Revente’s Last Call! Last Call is located at 3015 Millwood behind an octagon building that used to be a florist shop. It’s also in the same area as Groomingdale’s, which is on Butler Street. It’s open 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Monday through Saturday, and parking is plentiful. Bring cash or a debit/credit card and allow yourself plenty of time to look and try things on.